Dr. Al Barrow and Pastor June Barrow established Together Living with Cancer (TLC) in late 2018 as a program of the First Church Spiritual Development Center. This support group offers a place to talk about the changes and challenges experienced when cancer invades our lives. For the Barrows, TLC is a consequence of their own personal journey and its purpose is close to their hearts. The Epistle recently asked Al and June a few questions about TLC. Here is what they had to say.

Tell us briefly how God inspired you to start Together Living with Cancer.
Al & June: Our personal journey with cancer began with Al’s diagnosis of renal cell carcinoma in October 2017. Like so many who hear such news, we were shocked and aware of our own need for friendship, prayer, encouragement, and support. As our journey continued, we wanted to help others facing cancer find the support we so valued. For us, we became more open to what God had planned for us and wanted to urge others to do the same. Often, it is difficult for cancer patients and their loved ones to find support and understanding. That is why we felt a call to provide a safe haven for those on this journey.

Why is it important for individuals and families to seek support when experiencing difficult times?
Al & June: For anyone diagnosed with cancer, it is a unique and personal journey, but there are still common feelings and thoughts all cancer patients and their loved ones share. Cancer is an emotional, physical, and spiritual roller coaster. At TLC, participants are invited to share experiences, thoughts, feelings, and questions. It’s a place to speak as openly as one wishes in the company of others who understand. It’s also an encouraging place. We pray for one another, we keep in touch, and we care how each person is doing—the one with cancer and those who love the one with cancer.

What effects have you seen in those who attend TLC?
Al & June: Some have said that after being together with the group they feel much better than when they came. Some have even said that the group feels like family. They know that they are not alone on such an uncertain journey; they know that others walk with them.